| Tight-lipped elders used to say, 'It's not what you want in this world, but what you get.' Psychology teaches that you do get what you want if you know what you want and want the right things. You can make a mental blueprint of a desire as you would make a blueprint of a house, and each of us is continually making these blueprints in the general routine of everyday living. If we intend to have friends to dinner, we plan the menu, make a shopping list, decide which food to cook first, and such planning is an essential for any type of meal to be served. | |
| 出言谨慎的年长者过去总说：“重要的不是在这个世界上你想要什么，而是你得到了什么。” 心理学教导人们，如果你知道自己需要什么、并且要求合理，你就能得到它。 你可以在头脑里勾画出愿望的蓝图，如同设计房屋的蓝图一样。而我们每个人在日常生活中都在不停地勾画着这样的愿望蓝图。比方说，想请朋友吃晚餐，我们就会筹划菜谱、列购物单、决定先煮什么菜等，这样的筹划对于举行任何形式的宴请都是必不可少的。 |
| Tightlipped elders used to say, ' It' s not what you want in this world, but what you get.' Psychology teaches that you do get what you want if you know what you want and want the right things. You can make a mental blueprint of a desire as you would make a blueprint of a house, and each of us is continually making these blueprints in the general routine of everyday living. If we intend to have friends to dinner, we plan the menu, make a shopping list, decide which food to cook first, and such planning is an essential for any type of meal to be served. | |
| chu yan jin shen de nian zhang zhe guo qu zong shuo:" zhong yao de bu shi zai zhe ge shi jie shang ni xiang yao shen me, er shi ni de dao le shen me." xin li xue jiao dao ren men, ru guo ni zhi dao zi ji xu yao shen me bing qie yao qiu he li, ni jiu neng de dao ta. ni ke yi zai tou nao li gou hua chu yuan wang de lan tu, ru tong she ji fang wu de lan tu yi yang. er wo men mei ge ren zai ri chang sheng huo zhong dou zai bu ting di gou hua zhe zhe yang de yuan wang lan tu. bi fang shuo, xiang qing peng you chi wan can, wo men jiu hui chou hua cai pu lie gou wu dan jue ding xian zhu shen me cai deng, zhe yang de chou hua dui yu ju xing ren he xing shi de yan qing dou shi bi bu ke shao de. |
| Tightlipped elders used to say, ' It' s not what you want in this world, but what you get.' Psychology teaches that you do get what you want if you know what you want and want the right things. You can make a mental blueprint of a desire as you would make a blueprint of a house, and each of us is continually making these blueprints in the general routine of everyday living. If we intend to have friends to dinner, we plan the menu, make a shopping list, decide which food to cook first, and such planning is an essential for any type of meal to be served. | |
| chū yán jǐn shèn de nián zhǎng zhě guò qù zǒng shuō:" zhòng yào de bú shì zài zhè gè shì jiè shang nǐ xiǎng yào shén me, ér shì nǐ dé dào le shén me." xīn lǐ xué jiào dǎo rén men, rú guǒ nǐ zhī dào zì jǐ xū yào shén me bìng qiě yāo qiú hé lǐ, nǐ jiù néng dé dào tā. nǐ kě yǐ zài tóu nǎo lǐ gōu huà chū yuàn wàng de lán tú, rú tóng shè jì fáng wū de lán tú yí yàng. ér wǒ men měi ge rén zài rì cháng shēng huó zhōng dōu zài bù tíng dì gōu huà zhe zhè yàng de yuàn wàng lán tú. bǐ fāng shuō, xiǎng qǐng péng yǒu chī wǎn cān, wǒ men jiù huì chóu huà cài pǔ liè gòu wù dān jué dìng xiān zhǔ shén me cài děng, zhè yàng de chóu huà duì yú jǔ xíng rèn hé xíng shì de yàn qǐng dōu shì bì bù kě shǎo de. |
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